lol i agree, i'm usually the putin of the group when something is happening so i stand there like an idiot with nothing to do. been like that my whole life.
i remember walking down the street once and a disabled bloke fell out of his wheelchair, so this random woman called me over to help when there were loads of other people there so i stood there doing nothing because there was nothing for me to do, when i walked away i was like what was the point in that, i didn't do anything but watch lol