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Offline [2F2F]SNiKeRiS

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Re: Just some writing of thoughts.
« Reply #15 on: October 29, 2009, 09:06:14 pm »
I can count my friends on fingers too. Well my best friends im not counting simple friends.
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Re: Just some writing of thoughts.
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Re: Just some writing of thoughts.
« Reply #18 on: October 29, 2009, 09:11:12 pm »
Almost feds  ;D

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Re: Just some writing of thoughts.
« Reply #19 on: October 29, 2009, 09:14:25 pm »
But who can maintain 20 good friends, no one can... you don't have the time for it ;)

You can have a few good friends and a lot of people you'll see sometimes and have a little talk with.

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Re: Just some writing of thoughts.
« Reply #20 on: October 29, 2009, 09:16:48 pm »
I have changed my school 3 times already ( not because im some kind of moron xD) So in every class there are 30 good people. 30+30+30=90. 90 friends and great friends :L

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Re: Just some writing of thoughts.
« Reply #21 on: October 29, 2009, 09:19:34 pm »
McCain, it's not the quantity of friends, it's how good of a friend they are, I can count my closest friends on my fingers as well. As long as you have a few good friends, that's all that matters. As for being shy and anti social, you'll eventually break out of that, I was once very shy but I've passed it. Just go out more often and give the PC a break ;) Also don't think of yourself as those things, just makes you feel worse in the end of the day, pick a few positive things about yourself and go with that.

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Re: Just some writing of thoughts.
« Reply #22 on: October 29, 2009, 09:21:16 pm »
Always remember, quantity doesn't matter. It's how you feel about your friends.

I've only had a few (best) friends during high school (like when I graduated we we're only 4 in the group), but I had the most wonderful time with them and they always made me feel great. ;D

EDIT: woops! pyrofox beat me to it :L well, yep quality > quantity

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Re: Just some writing of thoughts.
« Reply #23 on: October 29, 2009, 10:49:08 pm »
KICK THE PC MACCAIN !!! It will make your feelings worse in future.Its a nice painkiller yes i agree with it, i do same too.

More youre on pc, lesser chance you will meet and have social things going.It will suck you out of your life, you will want it to be more involved into yourself.You cant live without it.

You shud have at least one fine going friend, try to keep close on him and hopefully if hes a social person youll meet people.Surely youll find some more friends, then make some nice stuff eh.

AND YOURE NOT UGLY.Nobody is ugly enough to dont look at since you dont have a totally burnt up face... Shyness comes by keeping away from other people.Anti social shit comes from growing up in a shy life or being kept away from humans and stuff like these.

I see it and know it as one of problems appearing while you growing up and lots of people have it plus lots of people lived with it for ages.(e.g. my grandma) And its taking time to get over it, but you must not give up and just keep going further all the time.

I can tell some of my story here for lil inspiration or knowledge for you.Currently im not over it and seemingly i cant be advancing forward anymore soon.

It starts with lefting school aprx. 3 years ago.In aprx. again 2 years i was TOTALLY at home, without going to streets and keeping on PC whole of day.Some people might remember me playing 10+ hours in one row.And i was fine in 1 year but after that (brain growing progress i think lol) i started to think about more on future, WHAT could happen if i go thru this way ??? It was a real blind question.With no education, no friends, no people.Thats just a no life.And i was looking for something to get me out, my uncle suggested me to work with him and i rejected it at first.After one month he asked for it again, i was seriously getting bored and worried about my situtation i said ok for it.In first time i got out it was really weird after those years.

I started to work in a curtains shop, there was my uncle and one more employee and me.In that first day i was like a frozen stone most of time, talking almost no time.You feel strange while against a strange eh.It was on that way.After days pass and pass i managed to get a relationship going.I was managing to talk and have funny stuff going.Well this isnt related to you much till here and maybe further on lol.

After some time another boy came into work he was a frozen stone like me too.I am also.He was having hard time on strangers also.In early times i was expecting some get-close move from him and it wasnt going to happen.Then (everyday i was taking deep thoughts about being an active&social person) i decided to get on move and do something.All i did is picking right words to dont make him say WTF is this guy saying ?! And talk to him related to something around us.Right now we are just like friends.

And that shop taught me one more thing, more youre involved more easy you talk.Somedays i was having customer flows and there i was making it out more easily one after one.So about you Cain if you get on track and hit the gas, make friends and interact.Youll make it out more easily next time and so on.

Currently i have only 2 friends or we can say 3 one is my "bicycle" and computer is NOT. :P Plus i dont have girls around me at all lol. And those 2 friends arent worthy of being friends with.School is an epic source of socialism in our ages.Plus a place shapes your life and your character.Im a bit sad about lefting it right now but its done, nothing to do.

Anyway enough crapness.Just a piece to this topic from me. :)

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Re: Just some writing of thoughts.
« Reply #24 on: October 29, 2009, 10:52:59 pm »
Really thanks guys :D you all made me feel better specially pyrofox Love but stay out of pc is hard to me. Maybe i get interested in another thing in future.Let's see what will happen. Last year was worse. Many times i thought in kill myself. I had no friends in school.
This year i am in a new school and made a bit of friends but problems still. I will try follow yours advice.
Again thanks guys ;)

Edit: wow Love i totally agree with you,i am like you was. You won the best advice award ;D.
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Re: Just some writing of thoughts.
« Reply #25 on: October 29, 2009, 10:58:27 pm »
Especially me? Love was the one with the wall of text xD Yeah but, glad to help :)

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Re: Just some writing of thoughts.
« Reply #26 on: October 29, 2009, 11:10:15 pm »
We are here to help you.. :)

Btw, searching a job next to your school career does help in making friends... Or choose a sport you like and practise that.

Where did I meet my friends?

- Some friends from my primary school.
- I still have a lot friends from secondary school..(and I met friends of friends who became friends too).
- At the university I met some friends too.
- I have some friends of places where I used to work.
- Some people I know from the neighbourhood I live(d) in.
- And I have friends from sport; soccer(I quit since this season due to pain in my ankle which kept coming back).

And what are friends? From the above story everyone seems to be my friend, well that isn't true. I have a few very good friends, where I can talk about whatever I want to say... Then I got some friends where I can have a great time with.. After that there are some friends who I see sometimes and have a talk with or drink a beer together. And the level below that is friends who I almost never see, but when I see them I can choose to make a talk or not.. they won't really bother if I ignore them, and they probably will be pleased when I make a short talk with them.

Friends are there on any level.. :)

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Re: Just some writing of thoughts.
« Reply #27 on: October 29, 2009, 11:10:53 pm »
Especially me? Love was the one with the wall of text xD Yeah but, glad to help :)

Yea me and him posted at same time,lol but dont worry i edited it :L

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Re: Just some writing of thoughts.
« Reply #28 on: October 30, 2009, 12:01:39 am »
probably the best topic that ush has ever made

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Re: Just some writing of thoughts.
« Reply #29 on: October 31, 2009, 11:34:03 am »
Another typhoon entered the country this morning, this one hit my house moderately hard. I've got leaks in the entire attic and some of my window screens are bust.

God bless our country.

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